Cope

When i broke up with my recent BF , he repeatedly asked me "I don't understand how can you take this so easily ?" When I first heard, im pretty mad. The way he ask is like, Im not sad or feeling a sense of pity/unfortune/too bad.

Since Im repeatedly being asked, I get bored over it and answered :

I don't show my sadness doesn't mean Im not sad.

I don't cry doesn't mean Im happy.

Does it mean i got to grief and cry as if somebody died ?

Does it mean i got to jump down from the building ?

Yet he don't get it after i said that. But it don't bother me much. Since we broke up his happiness/ sadness is not what i should care of. 

From people point of view I might be veryt MEAN and HEARTLESS. But I just want to say everyone cope and take sadness diffrently. How can you tell if Im really happy just by my facial expression ?
Does it really matter and helps if I i show my sadness on my face and tell everyone Im sad ?
I do not want to be a "social network" spread all kind of news to everyone which either make them happy or sad.

How are you handling your sadness now after years and have aged ?

"Everyome take sadness differently, dont judge a person by your interpretation"